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The One Question You Should Ask Yourself To Know If You’re Really Ready For Courtship and Marriage (Part 1 of 2)

About 10% of the ladies I meet-up every week for Bible studies are young working professionals aged 25 to 30. They, or rather we, have different but equal concerns and priorities as compared to those of the high school students and college student-athletes. Students are more concerned about how they should deal with their friends,… Continue reading The One Question You Should Ask Yourself To Know If You’re Really Ready For Courtship and Marriage (Part 1 of 2)

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Marriage is Not THE Goal

We live in a world today where the pressure is on for the 20-something years old ladies and gents who are single by choice and/or circumstance. Worse, if you are not in/pursuing any romantic relationship, the world will make you feel that you are of lesser worth. I have heard and overheard them, too. “Why… Continue reading Marriage is Not THE Goal

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To the Ladies I Intentionally Meet Up Every Week

It is still clear to me how I met you for the first time, how we had that first conversation about the gospel, and how we had our first Bible study date ever. Since then, God allowed many unforgettable moments in our relationship as friends but more importantly as family. I may have known you… Continue reading To the Ladies I Intentionally Meet Up Every Week

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Why We Stopped Saying “I Love You” to Each Other

"Hi. Alright. I'm on my way. Take care. Ok. Bye." Right after I pressed the 'end call' icon on my phone, one of my good friends who overheard me asked, "No 'I love yous'?!" Confused, I looked at her and said, "Why not?" With furrowed brows, she said, "Your relationship with Martin is really weird". This is actually… Continue reading Why We Stopped Saying “I Love You” to Each Other